While it is true that every woman is a puzzle, it is also true that you need to learn a thing or two about this majestic creature called “woman.” If you’re looking for this guide, then chances are you’re one of the following:
- You have been hanging out a lot, and you’re attracted to her.
- You want to know if you’re in the friendzone.
- You’re unsure of what she wants.
- You think she likes you.
- Or you simply have a crush on her and want to escalate further.
If you’re one of the above, then chances are you’re not alone, Everyman from the age of 7 is capable of feeling love or crushes towards a girl, so, with that being said I’m going to explain how can you tell a girl likes you in step-by-step detail.
Okay, fellas, since your wondering what the first step is, here’s my advice, it doesn’t matter if you are old, new, or a veteran when it comes to dating. It all boils down to how smart you are. You see, men are hardwired to hunt; therefore, you and your ancestors have survived with that ability.
You see, before you hunt you plan out first, you should learn where the prey is, what bait to use, and how to use your tools. Same goes with dating, you see, you want to learn more about the person you like because at the end of the day you choose who you want to cuddle with, will it be the gorgeous looking club-dancing-beauty or the gorgeous looking smarty-pants who could make you stay home.
It’s up to you.
Now, once you learn a thing or two about the person, you can plan out your goal. The plan here is to know if you’re just horny or you want to take it to the next level.
If you decide that you’re just horny and you just want to hook-up with this girl that you like, then I don’t blame you. I can say that I have been there. But if you’re going to take it to the next level, then I could tell you can go to the next instruction.
Testing the Waters
Here’s the hard part. Well, to be frank, everything in this world is hard, you just have to get used to them. Here’s how you can test the waters subtly
I’d hate to burst your bubble, but you might want to know if you’re in the friendzone first. Here’s how you do it, ask her questions. But the question should be exciting, and it can be something she likes or something that she’s been dreaming of doing Here’s some good question to ask her:
“If you’re going on a vacation, where would it be?”
“What’s your favorite food.”
“Why did you choose that as a career.”
“What is your favorite band?”
“What’s some good series on Netflix.”
The whole point of this question is to get a conversation going and get to know here, take note that this part happens subconsciously and should come up naturally. But I wrote this for you as a guide so you can get a conversation going.
I would avoid too personal questions and motives, showing questions like, “How come you don’t have a boyfriend?”
From here on out, you can tell if you are in the friend zone.
While doing this, you can also add them to Social Media, Facebook, and Instagram is a way to go. Don’t be too awkward about it. In a typical setting (Non-club interaction), it’s perfectly normal to add and follow her out of the blue. If she asks you how you found her Facebook account, just tell her you saw it on your “suggested friends” list.
Now, once you found out that you guys are comfortable with each other, you can test and see if she’s interested. Here’s something that I do before I ask her out.
- Ask her questions about you.
- Create an Inside Joke that the only two of you can understand.
- Ask her for a favor.
- Chat on social media
- Send wholesome memes.
Now, if she’s able to react positively to these tests, chances are she is interested in you. Now while doing that, take a look at some of the obvious signs that she likes you.
Ask Her Out
Here’s the hardest and last part of your Journey. If she’s interested in you, she will say yes, and that’s the only time you can say that she’s interested in you.
How to ask a girl out
Now there are very different styles most men do, but they all boil down into one. You have to be serious about what you say to her. Show her your intentions, be clear on what you want to achieve. This is a way for her to know that you are surely serious about pursuing her.
Step 1. Pick the best time and the place on how you ask her out. Ideally, it should be asked when both of you are comfortable, alone, and happy.
Step 2. Always expect the worst. With that being said, still, plant in your mind that she will say the words that will haunt you forever, and that word is “No.”
It’s okay to get a “No” my advice is a better man, ladies will follow you if you’re well off and happy, this, I can assure you.
But there could be an unlimited reason she says no. If you want to improve yourself, you can ask her why she said no and use that reason to educate yourself. Or, if it’s not you who’s the reason, you can happily move on and find a more suitable partner.
Step 3. Go and ask her out, That’s it. Say the words, “Will you go out with me.”
If you, on the other hand, want to know how to seduce a woman, click the link for the guide